Gender disappointment is A Thing, and I have it. In my research, I’ve noticed that most posts start off with apologies from the writer for having these feelings. But fuck that. I’m not apologizing for something that’s a normal part of people’s pregnancy journeys. I […]
Right now I can’t wait to tell people that I’m pregnant. But I’m also really enjoying the fact that only a few people know. I’m stuck between wanting to tell everyone and no one, because I know that when the greater public finds out, they’re […]
It’s been almost a week since I miscarried, and I’m still going through it…
While miscarriage is a normal part of many a pregnancy journey, it doesn’t mean it feels normal. Rather, it feels like I’m going insane because I can’t regain control my brain or my body. I can barely sleep some nights for fretting about everything, plus, you know, the continual cramping and discomfort.
And all through this I’ve experienced everything from the most amazing support to shocking insensitivity from friends and family. So that vein I give you…
Hi! May B isn't my real name, but it's a real good name for now! I'm in a weird place as a childfree woman who decided to be a parent. And if you're on the same journey, know you're not alone. Join me as I try to figure out the wtf I'm doing. Maybe it'll be work? Maybe it won't? But it'll damn sure be interesting.